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No compromises. Only the finest, body-safe leather and hardware — handpicked, custom-developed, and finished in our Dutch workshop.

Here’s what makes Provocateur gear legendary:

• Boudoir Leather: exclusive cow leather, tanned in the Netherlands — made just for us. Ultra-soft, yet seriously strong and stain-repellent. Used only for our leather lingerie — not harnesses. Hugs your curves, feels like a second skin, but built to last. Always body-safe, always breathable.
• Signature Harness Leather: premium cow leather, tanned in Italy and developed to our exact specs. Thicker for structure and support, yet soft enough to mold perfectly to your body. Used for most men’s and women’s fashion harnesses, plus select collars and accessories. Smooth, clean surface, easy to clean, and won’t develop patina. Made to look sharp, feel right, and last through every adventure.
• Pro Leather: the ultimate for leather connoisseurs and built for hardcore use: thick, heavy buffalo leather, tanned in Italy. This is the best of the best — super strong, intensely aromatic, and molds to your body like a glove thanks to its natural moisture. Wears in, not out: gets better, softer, and bolder with every use. Shows all the true character of the hide — nothing covered up, just honest, raw leather. Standard for all men’s F*ck gear harnesses, women’s waist belts, and most collars. Want to upgrade your harness? Contact us for a custom Pro Leather build.
• Second Skin Leather: supple, smooth, and ultra-comfortable with a satisfying thickness to prevent and restore creases. The surface wipes off easily, keeping your gear looking sharp with minimal effort. Used for kilts, skirts, and select style harnesses. Moves with you — never stiff, never restrictive.

All hardware is nickel-free, anti-allergic, and custom-plated for that signature Provocateur look. Premium, body-safe, and built to last.

Want to keep your leather looking legendary? Check out our Hardcore Care guide for everything you need to know about maintenance, cleaning, and making your gear last a lifetime.

Because luxury has a dark side, and you deserve the best. 🖤

Standard isn’t our style. At Provocateur, your gear is made to fit your fantasies—down to the last detail.

• Size Adjustments: Need it bigger, smaller, or somewhere in between? We can tailor every piece to fit your body like it was built for you — because it is.
• Custom Text: Make it personal. Add your name, initials, or a phrase that means everything (or nothing) to anyone but you.
• Custom Colours: Want to stand out? Choose from our range of signature leathers or request a custom color. If we can source it, we’ll make it happen.

Got a wild idea? Push our limits. We live for the bold and the bespoke. Ready to own something no one else has? Drop us a message with your customization request.

WhatsApp / Phone: +31(0)611850408

Email: hugo@provocateur.shop

Want the full experience? Book a private shopping session at our Design Lab to schedule a made-to-measure fitting, or, if you’re not near the Netherlands, book a virtual private shopping or video consultation via video chat to discuss your wants and needs from anywhere in the world

Book your (virtual) Private Shopping Experience Now!

Your gear, your rules. 🖤

Shipping, Provocateur Style:

Wherever you are, we ship — expect fast global delivery, full tracking, and express options if you need your order in a hurry. Every order is packed with care in our Arnhem workshop and sent straight to your door in discrete packaging — no logos, no clues, your order and your secrets stay yours.

We believe in rewarding bold moves. That’s why standard shipping is always free within the Netherlands. For our European customers, spend over €500 and we’ll cover the standard shipping costs. Cross the €1000 mark and standard shipping is on us, wherever you are on our planet.

Shipping costs for your location are calculated at checkout, so you always know exactly what to expect before you buy. Want to know transit times or shipping costs for your region in advance? Check our Shipping Policy for all the details on delivery speeds, carriers, pricing and terms. No surprises, no hidden fees — just premium service from start to finish. ✨

No-stress Returns

Changed your mind? No problem. You’ve got 30 days to decide if your Provocateur gear is the right fit for your desires. If it’s not love at first sight, send it back for a full refund, no questions asked. We believe buying bold should never mean buying blind. Try it, feel it, own it — risk-free. Your satisfaction is guaranteed, every time—because we stand behind every piece we make.

Questions? Need advice, a custom adjustment, or info about a product? We keep it personal!

Reach out and you’ll talk directly to the Provocateur team. No bots, no runaround, just real answers from real people who know the gear inside out.

You can contact us by phone, email, or WhatsApp — whatever works for you. We’re here to help with sizing, product questions, special requests, or anything else you need to make your experience flawless.

WhatsApp / Phone: +31(0)611850408

Email: hugo@provocateur.shop

We respond as soon as we can. Or book a private shopping session in person at our DesignLab, or a a virtual private video chat to discuss your wants, needs, and questions from anywhere in the world. Book your Personal Experience for the ultimate service and VIP experience.🖤